Ask for consent before (or directly after) touching! (For example: is this okay?)
Please respect me by asking for your desire before acting on it, this way I get to have an enthusiastic yes! or a no that brings us to a new place, both are exciting for me.
Thank you honoring this request.
I prefer we are sober for our session, thank you!
Please send me one of the following:
•1-2 references from a fellow provider (with their permission)
•screen shot of your active LinkedIn account
•photo of your ID showing only your name/picture
Thank you for your trust